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OK, first ill say i didnt do a good enough job setting this process up. i should have made a thread in here giving instructions on how to report post and rep stalking, how they were two different things, how they needed to be reported separately, and specific instructions on how to do that. i thought i could get away with what i told you and posted in that one politics thread, but that wasnt enough. so i will have to do that if i want to monitor and enforce this policy

secondly, what youve got here isnt good enough. i will take blame for that based on what i said above. but really, put yourself in my shoes and think about what you would need to show stalking. stalking is when someone follows you around and harasses you on almost every post, or follows you around and negs most of your posts simply out of spite. in order for you to determine that, you would have to see the posts, right? just showing that someone "reacted", as the system says, doesnt show whether it was a good or bad reaction. so a list of reactions is useless without seeing what you said and what type (pos or neg) their reaction was. the same thing goes for post replies, its only stalking if they are frequent and overwhelmingly negative

third, many of the examples youve given show you getting negged after you have flamed bowman harshly, insulting him in a vulgar and condescending manner. i dont think its unreasonable to neg you for that kind of behavior toward that person. i agree that bowman is obsessed with you and is going overboard in trying to punish you, but you are both acting like children so what do you expect? i would prefer you both act like adults, put each other on ignore, and walk away from the whole thing, but if youre not going to do that then you cant expect to not get flamed and/or negged if youre insulting them up a storm

ive got to decide if i want to/can manage this at this time. im not feeling well right now and am going back to bed. im either going to forget the whole thing and let people stalk each other, which would hurt the board tremendously. or i will have to create that thread with specific instructions on how to make your case

i will let you know soon. but for now just know that what youve shown so far either is too ambiguous to be of any value, or way worse, simply shows that both of you are harassing each other in a stupid man-child feud that demeans yourselves as much as the other guy

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one problem ive run into already is that this software doesnt appear to allow you to copy/paste a quoted reply. on the old software you could simply click on quote then highlight the whole text (including the posters name in the quote html tags) and the quote could be copy/pasted anywhere. in this software that doesnt work, it doesnt even allow you to highlight and copy the text, and doesnt include the quoters name, so using quote is useless

that only leaves links for direct access, but you would have to find that post link in the profile or in their content list to get the postid included in the url so that i could go to it in one click. that would be an arduous process for the complainant

wait a sec. what about that top right corner of a post that says 'Share this post'. lets see what happens when i click that, then copy and past the whole contents of that text box:

well that seems to work pretty well. it would have been better had it included the quote from bowman hip was responding to, but at least i could just click on the arrow and go right to it. we might be able to work with that

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im going to use that to copy my own post so that i dont lose it and can use it as a starting point if i decide to proceed with this hassle of a policy. i mean, i dont want people being stalked, but i dont want to have to spend hours tracking shit down. it has to be a pretty easy process for me and the complainant or its not going to work

looks like this would be good for rep stalking since it includes the reps for the post

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Before anything, I said this is just a few I pulled quickly and will add more when I have time this weekend.

Those links are from the same this post icon, but I copied them to notepad first so that's why they don't show the preview window, I assume

“There he goes. One of God's own prototypes.

A high-powered mutant of some kind, never even considered for mass production.

Too weird to live, and too rare to die.”

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Hip, im just going to be honest with you

first, i dont have the time or energy to work on this right now. my physical condition is deteriorating and im looking for any last medications that might keep me going. as much as i would like to outline a policy to clearly prohibit stalking and provide detailed instructions on how to demonstrate it, i just dont have the ability right now. i have more important things to spend time on, and when i do come here i want to post what i want to post to get away from my problems, not add to them

second, you have GOT to stop egging on bowman. we both know hes an annoying dufus. but you abuse him terribly, with some of the worst insults and vulgarity you give anybody on this board. how do you think a dufus is going to react to that? hes going to double down on the dufussery

im going to ask you one last time to put him on ignore and just let him dufus the fuck out of himself. the same goes for bowman. idk why you both are resisting that. it seems you each want to 'win' this feud, and not only is that not going to happen the way you treat each other is not what a good character person prioritises. trust me, if you stop responding and especially abusing each other, your interest in attacking each other will fade away, especially knowing you dont even bother to read it

its getting to the point that i may just put you both on time-outs for a couple weeks to see if that gets through to you. i dont want to do that, but this constant abusing of each other is way past tiresome. exercise some self-control and just let each other alone and youll both just drift off into space and stop colliding

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Dude, I've tried to be nice to the guy but he's like that little brother that breaks his shit and then blames you for it or breaks your shit and then denies it while he makes faces at you behind your parents back while you're getting your ass kicked for slapping the shit out of him.

But you already know this, you already know he's an instigator.

And I'm sorry to hear about your health, Meat. I wish there was something I could say that was just change everything but I can't. And I'm sure you know that, too. You are in a place that I fear more than anything else. so much so that thinking about it causes so much anxiety and panic that I just purposely don't think about it. You absolutely have my empathy and this place without you around is just not, probably not even worth coming to

“There he goes. One of God's own prototypes.

A high-powered mutant of some kind, never even considered for mass production.

Too weird to live, and too rare to die.”

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oh you'd have plenty to do here without me around

the republicans are still embracing don bc they are afraid of losing his base. the crazy part of that is that they will lose way more elections up and down the board by doing that. the voters turned out in record number only bc they hated him so passionately and realized how dangerous he is. the smart thing would be to convict him for FOMENTING A FUCKING VIOLENT COUP ATTEMPT so that he is confirmed a traitor in the minds of everybody except the True Believers, most of whom would lose interest once they realize even enough republicans agree he should never hold public office again. all these moonshine militia loonies will go back to wasting money stockpiling ammunition thats just going to go bad before they could possibly use a hundredth of it, and things will return to semi normal

but hes not likely to be convicted, todays republicans are mostly too stupid and evil to do the right and smart thing, so what happens after that is don is going to create a third party, drawing votes away from the already fractured republicans who will be in disarray and infighting for a long time when they dont convict don for FOMENTING A FUCKING VIOLENT COUP ATTEMPT. even if he gets convicted and spends time in jail probably wont break his voodoo hold on his base and republicans that support him. thus, the democrats are going to keep winning elections, get cocky, overreach like a mfer, and fuck shit up royal. fortunately we have at least two years until that starts to go really bad, and by then we will have a repaired and cemented ACA that the republicans cant sabotage again, which will only ensure the dems hold onto power (which is why the GOP sabotaged it in the first place, heartless bastards)

but make no mistake, having the dems control the executive and legislative branches for so long will lead to massive dysfunction, it always does when one side gets too much power, which i know you agree with. i dont think joe can make two terms so things are really going to start getting crazy when harris, who i think is a racist, wins in 2024, intensifying the war on cops, the blaming of white people for everything wrong with everything, and a massive overreach to try to jam too much socialism down everyones throats. pretty soon people will be accusing you of being a republican shill bc you will be speaking out against the crazy democrats agenda. you and others will have to take my place joining the growing number of reasonable and intelligent black folks that realize bad BLM is a victimhood peddling self-serving destructive scam that only HURTS black people and the B/W relationship. youre also going to have to beat back the crazy dems like The Squad that want to push too much socialism too fast, which we arent ready for

so i appreciate the sentiment, but life sometimes shits on people that dont deserve it, and it took a couple of great big dumps on me. happens to millions of people every day, i just hit the fucking jackpot. life is for the living, and ive got one foot in the grave and the other on a banana peel. you and others, i hope, will carry on portions of my work and try to make the world a better place, including our little shithole in the wall here

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in the meantime, for the love of dog, would you PLEASE leave bowman the fuck alone. pretend he doesnt exist. use the ignore function and dont reply to anything he says if you happen to see it by accident somehow. hes got the brain of a pea, he will tire of chasing you around when you arent feeding him juicy scraps of insulting vulgarity. dont ever bother trying to be nice to him, just consider him dead and move on with your life. he will definitely fade away. trust me

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8 hours ago, Meathead said:

in the meantime, for the love of dog, would you PLEASE leave bowman the fuck alone. pretend he doesnt exist. use the ignore function and dont reply to anything he says if you happen to see it by accident somehow. hes got the brain of a pea, he will tire of chasing you around when you arent feeding him juicy scraps of insulting vulgarity. dont ever bother trying to be nice to him, just consider him dead and move on with your life. he will definitely fade away. trust me

No dude, I tried that before. Put him on ignore and pretended to not see his posts where people quoted him. He steps it up when that happens. He's like gnat that insists on pissingf you off no matter how hard you try to swish it away. That's how the "Stalking" thing came up the first time. 

so i appreciate the sentiment, but life sometimes shits on people that dont deserve it, and it took a couple of great big dumps on me. happens to millions of people every day, i just hit the fucking jackpot. life is for the living, and ive got one foot in the grave and the other on a banana peel. you and others, i hope, will carry on portions of my work and try to make the world a better place, including our little shithole in the wall here

Nah, you're the last voice of reason here. Once you're gone, it'll just go wildly the other way. Who'll keep Lit in check? Who'll point out the political hypocrisy of the radicals? 

“There he goes. One of God's own prototypes.

A high-powered mutant of some kind, never even considered for mass production.

Too weird to live, and too rare to die.”

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On 2/2/2021 at 6:58 AM, HipKat said:

He steps it up when that happens. He's like gnat that insists on pissingf you off no matter how hard you try to swish it away.

... and then you reward that behavior by abandoning the higher ground and coming back to freak out on him with the worst insults and vicious vulgarity

DONT FEED A FUCKING TROLL. EVERRRRR!!!

thats exactly what he wants

studies have shown that if you train a bird to peck at a button to get a treat, then incrementally decrease the frequency of the treat, they will ultimately end up pecking until their beak starts to crack and bleed. bowman is a bird brain whom you have trained to peck until his beak falls the fuck off

you dont want to take any responsibility for this so you keep pointing the finger back at him, which he certainly deserves, but so do you. have some self control and will power for as long as it takes and i guarantee he will lose most interest in you when you discontinue feeding that troll

 

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3 hours ago, Meathead said:

... and then you reward that behavior by abandoning the higher ground and coming back to freak out on him with the worst insults and vicious vulgarity

DONT FEED A FUCKING TROLL. EVERRRRR!!!

thats exactly what he wants

studies have shown that if you train a bird to peck at a button to get a treat, then incrementally decrease the frequency of the treat, they will ultimately end up pecking until their beak starts to crack and bleed. bowman is a bird brain whom you have trained to peck until his beak falls the fuck off

you dont want to take any responsibility for this so you keep pointing the finger back at him, which he certainly deserves, but so do you. have some self control and will power for as long as it takes and i guarantee he will lose most interest in you when you discontinue feeding that troll

I think trying to make the effort to get along is taking responsibility, but I also think that you don't understand that when you try to ignore him he makes it impossible to ignore him. Now go look at recent posts and we're getting along like two brothers but unfortunately it won't last.

I don't make it an issue to put this out there on here, but there are forums out there that I'm ordering. Not that I own but that I am an admin on and the policy is no trolling. If a long-standing member starts rolling, he gets a timeout. If a new member walks in the door trolling, he gets banned for life. It's a no tolerance policy.

the only reason it's not like that here is because this place has a maximum of about 20 members that ever take part in anything and those sites have hundreds and in one thousands of members so banning somebody is not as easily noticed

 

“There he goes. One of God's own prototypes.

A high-powered mutant of some kind, never even considered for mass production.

Too weird to live, and too rare to die.”

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